Try to go out with nothing on you. Find one. Check its level by letting it kill u. Then once u find its level and u have the blood, go and let it grapple you. Let it eat the blood. Dont worry. Btw if a swarm tries to kill, I'm pretty sure the taming doesnt reset back to 0. It didnt on mine at least

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