When on the hunt for taming a queen, note that not all hives will have a queen bee inside. If you attack a hive and workers begin to swarm, you've found the queen. If not, try another hive or kill off the empty ones for more potential tames to spawn.
Once tamed you will be able to pick up the bee and it will add a hive to your inventory. You can then place it at your base. Keep in mind you will need to put rare flowers inside the beehive in order to keep it alive and producing honey.
Where a ghillie suit and use repellent if available. Once your break the nest the bee will fly to the floor and start spawning in baby bees. Try to quickly feed the bee then back off because her spawns will attack. Watch which way the bee goes! Since they have a small radius to be seen let it go out of view and it'll reset how many baby bees she has floating around her, that's when you run in and feed, then repeat.
Sometimes... When you tamed them...their "bees" will still enemies and kill their mother who summoned them...(common they wanna attack you first...)
And when you tamed, you can put much things to make them not moveable and use them to attack your enemies with summon bees in auto.(but their never eat any thing before turn to hive.)
For me I found it easier taming it with another person. Have your friend be on a mount preferably rex or something of that nature. Have them break the hive. The other person in full ghillie and uses bug repellent. The drones should attack the person on the mount. While the drones are distracted. Walk up to the queen bee and use flowers or kibble. (Passive Tame put food in last slot) the drones will start to attack you if and when they see you. Have the person on the mount follow behind you. If you aggro drones your friend kills them, and you continue to tame the queen bee. Helps to have a lot of health. A lot of health I had 600 and they almost killed me
Use a small tame such as a pack of dimorphodons to break the nest. Tames that can climb are also useful. Unless using a very strong weapon, guns are not advised as they may harm the bees. Use a ghillie suit and bug spray to remain undetected.
Ghille suit, rare flowers, shoulder mount otter. Stay about 10 foundation lengths away from the hive and shoot until hive explodes. Giant bees will explode themselves before they get to you & otter will kill those that dont die first. When hive explodes, queen will be hovering...give her ichthyornis kibble or rare flowers to tame. Take to your camp and the hive will make honey, but DO NOT check for the honey without wearing a ghillie suit...still, you will start to lose health slowly if you stay too close to it for too long.
I tamed one pretty quickly. Have a partner on a mount and they kill the hive and you follow the queen. I take a sword with me so when I feed the queen and she summons drones I use the sword on the drones and it makes easy kills of them. Then I continue to follow the queen. Be careful not to lose her though because I have lost many, especially when trying to tame by myself. I also use ghillie and bug repellant. Good luck.
Pteranodon barrel roll attack is good for breaking the nest as for taming it's best to have a full set of ghillie then throw honey lay and lay down next to it and spam the interact key when it flies to it's honey.