Some tips I'm going from my experiences today.

Take a Fob to defend yourself (Heavy and generator boxed up) while incubation happens

Have everything pre-made that it can ask for

Have a sinomacrops for the quicker perishables such as honey

Someone already posted a list of possible cravings, kudos.

Net gun is a must net whatever the female is fighting and then net her, kill off all distractions/threats then damage her

Use an assault rife and magnifying glass to gauge her health