i found out a really easy way to tame on a non dedicated!
1. make sure you’re with the server host
2. tame an expendable argy
3. have the host ride the argy and pick up a partner/you/etc
4. have the host drop the partner in a nest
5. have the host kill themselves
when the host respawns, the partner will get teleported out of aggro distance
there you go! you got an egg!
now go tame a deodon. they spawn right near the scar